Big Smiles

So last night i ot to see the best thing a mother can see and that was a smiling child, only it was a goofy smile, Haydn can now smile on command and it is funny but ill let you see for your self

Mickey Mouse Club House...........

Recently we have started watching cartoons in the morning time followed by some cleaning and activities in the afternoon. and my oh my does my monkey LOVE Mickey Mouse Club House and i have to send a special shout out to the late Mr. Walt Disney this show allows me to finally get some stuff done and Haydn gets so so excited when it comes on i talking ecstatic full on freak out with laughs and smiles just in the last week Haydn has showed so much more improvement in his speech, actions and his understanding in what we are asking him to do and this has happened since we started watching the show, i know what people say about it frying the brains of young minds but my son has totally benefited from this show as crazy as it sounds this will be a repetitive thing in the Ziegler house hold hoping to help my son learn more and more each day 

What Happened and Where did the time go???

So my last post was in June since then we have been so busy life kinda over took all my time so my "wanting" to post every day went out the window, Since we last herd James, Haydn and I were living in an apartment, Well not no more folks James and i were offered and amazing opportunity to rent a little house and we took it, ita a little smaller than we like but its amazing no worrying about anybody else more privacy and lots of love but we do miss you very friendly neighbors upstairs from us but like us they are moving on as well.

Haydn grew so much over they summer walking like a champ and finally growing some teeth, talking a bit more and more personality then i can handle, we spent our summer with 6 other children yup i took on 6 more.... sometimes all at the same time but not too often, so we were busy helping out family and friends i figured if i am home why not lend out my child watching services right?? But now that all the kids are back in school we are getting back into the swing of things and hopefully moveing on with our lives together a little bit more calmly.....Hahaha with a 15 month old FAT CHANCE He gets into everything and really keeps me on my toes and with the holidays nearing we have lots of work to do and i am totally pumped about it.

IMPORTANT STUFF YOU ALL MISSED

So in July Haydn turned one, we celebrated with a day on the boat and a special dinner with uncle shane and auntie carissa which was fun also on that day haydn started walking

In august mom and dad went on their very first real vacation together and Haydn spent the week at his aunties....lets just say he ignored me for a week cause he stayed home silly boy to smart for his own good!!

In september Haydn finally got teeth, his 2 year molers but at least its teeth we were getting worried we didnt wanna have him have surgery and then his front two top ones came in a few weeks later now we are just waiting for the bottom ones to start.


All in all it was a great summer now on to the next season and to catch up on some blogging

Until next time

Mommy Milestones

found this in an article......totally true

Mommy Milestones

• You've managed to successfully babyproof your home without making it look like a stunt person's practice area.
• You are a Master Swinger (i.e., you can push your baby on the swings from the front, from the back, while singing songs, while playing peek-a-boo, while playing patty-cake ...).
• You watch Sesame Street for the nostalgia factor.
• You can push a stroller with an iced coffee in hand without suddenly veering into different directions.
• You want to go out on a date with your partner as an excuse to wear something nice.

Mr. Personality

At this stage in Haydn's life, i have learned that he is a DRAMA QUEEN, let me tell you........, when Haydn aint happy nobody can be happy, when someone tells him no he looks back at you and says NO NO NO, when he doesnt get his mommy time he lets everyone know, when we are in a strange place he freaks out, ohh and if you give him a tap on the wrist to make sure he knows its bad he hits you in the face and then laughs at you like.."yeah right i own this place", DONT get me wrong hes an angel 95% of the time but his personality comes out in so many ways,


We've also hit a bump in the eat aspect of his life, lets just said he cant eat meat, which he needs for protein, so we have to put it in a blender thus far making me wish for teething something i never thought a mom could do, wish for weeks of pure hell but it will be much better for him especially since he had a chocking episode this week, on pizza of all things, so if anybody has any tips please send them this way which brings me to my next ponit..... anybody have any ideas for over night diapers i have tried everything from overnight disposable diapers to cloth diapers one size up and one size down but no matter what i do Haydn makes a mess of himself and his crib nearly every day, and for the sake of my pocket and my sanity i have to figure out soon because it costs me 3.50 every time i do a load of laundry, which again leads me to something new, James and i really want our own home but we both dont want to rush into anything at the same time and get in too deep before its to late fix things but neither of us want to be in this apartment any mor so i think we are going to look into renting a house, a friend of our has one for rent in our price range its just we are unsure if we wanna move again before we own a home......decisions decisions

PLEASE PASS ALONG

Now i dont know this family personally but my fiances family is close to the father of this baby, please pass this on, as a mother i could never imagine taking my son away from his father people like this do not deserve children, it took a month for this to be considered an abduction so pass this as far as you can because they have had a head start

A boy, a baby and a wedding = losing friends????

Since having Haydn James my life has taken a drastic change, i spend a lot of time at home , no more going out and drinking, not more being dumb, and being responsible and growing up to be something hasnt done anything for my social life outside of James, Since becoming a mom have have lost so many friends that just dont understand my situation and today i have been feeling a little crappy about while thinking to myself that people should be happy for me and proud, instead the either ignore me, never call or not acknowledge that i even exist. I have one friend that came to see me in the hospital and i maybe hear from her ever 5 months if that, i have another friend that i try to talk with every day by phone text or email and well i never hear anything, i have one other friend who i cant even call my friend anymore because she just stopped talking to me all together. DOnt get me wrong i have friend ones that after everything i know will be here forever  and i can always count on but it makes me sad that i have lost so many, i sometimes think maybe its me, maybe i talk about haydn too much but Haydn is now what i do hes all i have to talk about, i am a stay at home mom what else should i talk about.


I dont know maybe i just read to much into it but i have herd this happens to many people when they have babies get married and start a life with a significant other and its just not fair, people are only trying to be happy maybe i am not as good of a judge of people as i thought i was..........all i have to say is thank you to the friends who have stuck by my side i cant be easy always hanging out with me and my baby but im glad you get it